I haven't been writing here in over a year and I know why: it's because I'm pretty sure nobody wants to hear what I have to say. Taiwan was fun. Taiwan was an adventure. Taiwan was not the stress-fest that my daily...weekly...monthly... life often is here in Japan. And the number one thing nobody wants to hear about is someone else's problems. So, you know. I keep that shit to myself. I do want to talk, though, and probably about something nobody wants to hear about: sexualities that aren't their own. I'm ace. (Asexual.) A little over a year ago, I was four nights away from moving to Japan, and I finally got around to googling "asexuality" beyond its dictionary definition, which is "a person who doesn't experience sexual attraction." The problem with that dictionary definition is that nobody ever explicitly describes to you what sexual attraction feels like . The entire world assumes that everyone feels it, so when you begin to r...